“Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” my interlocutor innocuously asked over his regular milk latte at FIKA on West 58th street. I stammered with a reply, not because of my stutter, but due to having no good response. It took me a few pots of tea and an

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I remember my first Pride parade. It was in Jerusalem, about a year after I first came out to my roommate, and a half-year since discovering the community at The Edge (ha-Katzeh) on Tuesday nights. I was still closeted to most of the people in my life, but I was

Dear Chocolate, You and me are pretty good together. You complement parts of me I didn’t even know were lacking. I know what people’s initial reaction to seeing us together is. “That’s so unnatural and wrong,” they scream, “if god wanted things to mix, he would’ve

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Dear “So Delicious”, I happened across your “Mint Chip” Coconut Milk non-dairy frozen dessert while perusing the over-the-counter drug aisle for Zyrtec at Gelson’s in West Hollywood. The only reason I really use Zyrtec so much is because I walk my friend Sheena’s two dogs every day, one

When the television show “Smash” needed to cast an innovative songwriter and producer who could re-envision the character of Marilyn Monroe with a harder edge, they called Ryan Tedder, lead singer and frontman for OneRepublic to play himself. The long list of cross-genre artists that Tedder has either wrote songs

I’ve been having very morbid thoughts recently, like who would play me in a biopic of my life. I would really want James Earl Jones, because that voice has a gravitas I feel goes really well with my personality. I’ve seen my community change through the years. If